Monday, 16 May 2011

Facts about LDR

You can meet with somebody online through chat or social net sites & want to start a relationship though you live far from each other. Or may be you are in relationship now but careers can pull somebody across the country. Before jump in to a long distance relationshipyou are require looking inside you & being definite that you are prepared to deal with this level of dedication.

First, you need to understand positive and negative aspects of long distance relationship. Because for few days or months or even it may be for a year that you and your partner maintain long distance relationship. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. So it is sensitive and important issue to understand. I can share a quantity of my point of view about this topic. So let’s start it.
Give a name of your relationship, in the event you are not spouse. It may be dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged or so on. It appears to be a bit difficult & awkward questions to ask, but this will save you great heartache & misunderstanding.

Maintain a regular contact along with your partner. Do it as much as feasible. You can send gifts or flowers. Now there's lot of web pages who will do this for you. Send your partner text massage or mail (Make sure the e-mails are substantive & detailed) Or you can use web cam for video chatting through skype or yahoo. Watch a film together & after that call each other & discuss it. Play an online game together. Or query each other about whatever topic comes to your mind. Questions are great discussion starters & you will know each other in a better way.

Make a plan for future together. By this you both will understand that relationship is going somewhere and that your efforts and frustrations are not in vain. And after some time frame you are back together again. And also try to visit each other whenever it’s feasible.

Be positive. Be realistic .Avoid jealousy and trust your partner. And be honest with each other and honest together with your feelings. Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects of a long-distance relationship is must. And simultaneously also keep in mind that you are in relationship now. So don’t break your partners trust.

It all depends on how strong your relationship is. If it is strong and both partners are willing to continue it for future then long distance relationship also works. I do think that there is chances of long-distance relationships have a better way if the couple was together first then separated.

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